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TL;DR Executive Summary
9 households are currently trialling Fairshareâs latest beta service
After screening 300+ candidates, 13 meetings, and being stood up twice(!), Fairshare may have (finally) found a technical co-founderâwatch this space
SAVE THE DATE! Fairshare will be in person at the Women of the World Festival Marketplace at the Southbank Centre on Sunday 12th March
Research shows that implicit decision-making entrenches traditional gender roles and responsibilities at home, and finds explicit communication to be the most powerful driver to change the division of labour
đ Big win
Our current beta service is working! Users have told us it is increasing their awareness and communication about chores, improving sharing, increasing task completion and helping them appreciate their partner more for their contributions at home
đ Statistic of the month
1 in 9 stay at home parents in the UK are now fathers, up from 1 in 14 in 2019. Between July and September 2022, 141k fathers were not in paid employment and stayed at home, whereas 1.2 million mothers were out of the workforce due to family reasons in the same period
Source: ONS, reported in The Guardian
đ˘ Updates
2023 is well underway and there have been some exciting developments for Fairshare:
We completed our first pilot of the latest service idea, and have progressed our second pilot
Fairshare is very excited for its first in-person presence at the Women of the World Marketplace at the Southbank Centre in London on Sunday 12th March
Fairshare made a number of applications to accelerators in Januaryâunfortunately we were rejected from Antler, but we have an interview for Unrest and will be attending a Social Venture Weekend at Cambridge University in March
Fairshare has entered Harvardâs New Venture Competition and is in the running for a chance to win $75k of non-dilutive capital
This past month we have been grateful to catch up with several impressive people working in the space, including Haley Swenson of Work Life Everything, Felicia Kashevaroff of Tend Task, Laura Danger of TikTok fame, Louisa Plasberg of Equaly and many other inspiring leaders in the CareForce quarterly call
I have increased my time working on Fairshare to four days a week (continuing chores research with Harvard one day a week)
Over the next two months, Fairshare is thrilled to be doing a trial collaboration with a potential technical co-founderâwatch this space for some speedier build progress updates
đ Learnings from the month
This month we dived into some research on the implicit and explicit nature of couplesâ decision-making when it comes to chores
It found that most couples had vague expectations about how they would divide labour before they moved in together, but that these guiding principles didn't translate well into tactical ways to share housework on a daily basis
Furthermore, couples would anticipate, discuss and plan the division of paid work when they faced new situations such as expecting a child, but couples âscarcely discussed the future division of domestic workâ (which increases significantly when families expand). Housework tended to only be discussed explicitly âwhen one of the partnersâusually the womanâfeels frustratedâ
When couples were asked explicitly if they disagreed over the division of labour, they would often say ânoâ or that they couldnât remember, but when asked in a different way, the researchers found ânearly all couples had disagreements about domestic work at some point.â The researchers suggested that couplesâ downplayed arguments and their seriousness to preserve the external image of their romantic relationships
The researchers distinguished between implicit (absent of discussion, conflict-avoidant) and explicit (deliberative, featuring proactive planning, negotiation and engagement in conflict) decision-making when it comes to the division of chores
The researchers were surprised to find implicit, âsilent agreementsâ to be very common even among their sample of young, modern couples. Fairshare sees this tooâmost couples we speak to say their division of labour âevolved naturallyâ and they they havenât explicitly talked before about who is responsible for what, who does what, and to what standards and frequency
The researchers found that traditional specialised roles at homeâfemale homemaker, male breadwinner (in heterosexual relationships)âare agreed more quickly and spontaneously, without conversation
Conversely, when couples deviate from traditional gender roles to share in a more egalitarian way, more communication and decision-making is involved
They found that âexpressing feelings openly and directly and actively negotiating conflicts can promote equality in day-to-day interactionsâ and ârefraining from rational bargaining often leads to traditional and gendered divisions of workâ
They also linked implicit decision-making with recurring âoutburstsâ and âboiling overâ of frustration, usually from women
Overall, the research found that implicit decision-making presents âa major obstacle to changing gender roles and responsibilities in couplesâ, and that âthe most powerful driver for changing the division of labour is explicit communicationâ
It suggested that couples who wish to achieve equality âshould, as a minimum, engage in explicit decision-making until they have developed egalitarian routinesâ
The research interview process itself was also found to have a positive impact, helping both partners explain their thoughts and preferences, which led to a different decision-making dynamic, and spouses reporting higher satisfaction after a couple of months
Source: Wiesmann, Boeije, H., van Doorne-Huiskes, A., & den Dulk, L. (2008). 'Not worth mentioning': The implicit and explicit
nature of decision-making about the division of paid and domestic work. Community, Work & Family, 11(4), 341â363
đ What we are consuming
Why Do We Do That? Why Doesn't Everyone Clear Up?, BBC podcast
Philosophers Tackle Ancient Mystery of Why Women Clean and Men Donât Notice, The Guardian article
What My Stay-at-home Dad and Working Mom Taught Me about Gender Equity, blog post
Fair Playâs new Home Eq[uity] curriculum, aiming to teach the next generation how to close the chore gap at home
đĽ Next month's goals
Automate our current service and complete the second pilot
Revamp our landing page
Prepare Harvard New Venture Competition pitch
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